I was fortunate to gain a prize each year I was at HLS 1960-65, sometimes 2 prizes.....
I never got a prize in school, I did get the top score for absence though.
It was in later life (25ish, years of age) I fancied a change. Signed up for evening class, Human Biology O Level at the local tech (it interested me) At the end of term, I sat the first (no second exam, first was 11+ failed that) of my life.
I sat there for 2.5hours scribbling my answers. I walked out of the college. I didn’t check to see if I’d passed when the results came out, thinking I’d failed.
Months later, I got home from work one day, covered in pine sap, from falling and landing timber all day. My other half looked at me and said you’ve got an ‘A’! What you on about? I said. You’ve got an A, I called your Tutor! my other half said the Tutor was amazed that I didn’t know as I was the only one to get grade A.
I have poor grammar and spelling, however I’ve not allowed it to hold me back. The rest is history.....
A message for anyone that’s got kids at school, not doing well, keep an open mind. One day that kid just might just surprise you.