A0S,
If you are able to decently rephrase your question, I may answer. As an aid, may I recommend to you the best English Grammar book I've come across:
UNDERSTANDING AND USING ENGLISH GRAMMAR by Betty Schrampfer Azar, it is widely available in US.
The Admin, Roy and Phil have known for some time that other interests & commitments, plus the time zone difference preclude me from having the time to be a mod